Our textbook defines adjourning as a group whose project or task that
has come to an end. This phase also allows the group members to reflect on their
accomplishments and failures through the project (O'Hair,
Weimann, Mullin, & Teven 2015). I believe the
hardest groups for me to leave are the ones who have had the most difficult tasks.
A few years ago, I got a promotion to be a curriculum coordinator at a
different school. I had to make a tough decision to leave my preschool students
and my co teacher of 2 ½ years. I must say that situation was very tearful. We
had worked so hard together and achieved so many obstacles, I did not want
to leave that behind. We grew together
to make our classroom a loving and nurturing environment. We balanced out each
other’s lows. So far, I would say that she was the best co-teacher that I ever
had. Sadly, she recently moved out of state but, we keep in contact and before she
moved, we would arrange a time once a month to caught up with drinks and laughter.
I would say most of the adjourning rituals I have experienced have
been get togethers to celebrate the ending of our project. Adjourning could be an essential
stage of teamwork if it allows you to reflect on the accomplishments or failures
within the group. Moving forth with the insight
gained from the reflection, will better prepare you for future group collaborations.
At the end of my master’s program, I imagine the adjourning phase with most of
my colleagues as best wishes and good. However, I do have a few
colleagues who I keep in contact with and hope to meet in person at the commencement.
Reference:
O'Hair, D., Wiemann, M., Mullin, D. I., & Teven, J. (2015). Real communication (3rd. ed). New York:
Bedford/St. Martin's.
Me and My Favorite Co Teacher (now friend)
Hi Kiara-
ReplyDeleteI agree that the teams that you go through the most difficult situations with are the hardest to leave. We become so invested in the children we teach that we know each other so well. I am glad that you had such a great experience with a supportive co-teacher, but could move on and grow in the field. These relationships allow us to grow and become better educators and leaders.
Bri Wolfe