For this week’s
blog post we are discussing communication as it relates to culture. Considering
all the aspects that make up culture, I do find myself communicating differently
based on those aspects. The way I communicate with children verses the way I communicate
with a parent or a coworker is very different. For example, when I communicate
with my student’s parents, everything from my body language to my choice of
words are based upon a professional approach. Whereas, my interactions with my
students differ, my voice/words are more kid friendly, and my body language is
more relaxed.
Based on what I
have learned this week, here are three strategies that will help me
communication more effectively within these cultural aspects:
1.
Be mindful. Being mindful, simply means being
consciously aware of your actions. When interacting with someone with a different
culturally background then my own, it is very important to acknowledge the connection
between our thoughts and as well our actions. Using self- talk is a great way
to become more mindful. Making mental notes will help one to be able to manage
their own feelings based on different situations (Beebe, Beebe, & Redmond,
2011).
2.
The
Platinum Rule. Do unto others as you wish to be done to you (Beebe, Beebe,
& Redmond, 2011). I would say that this rule is something that I
try to ensure on a daily basis. The section
really shared insightful information that I was not aware previously. Instead of
treating people as you would like to be treated, interact with them in a way you
think they would like to be treated (Beebe, Beebe, & Redmond,
2011). This was very interesting 😊
3.
Develop
skill. Authors defines being skilled, as using what you know and what you would
like to achieve into action (Beebe, Beebe, & Redmond, 2011). Being able to be
flexible and respond in creative and inventive ways is very important. Having the
willingness to learn as you communication on the spot, is the best practice to
prepare for new cultural experiences. For example, pay close attention to the
other person’s nonverbal cues when conversing. This will help you as the
listener to enhance your own intercultural competence. During this time, it
will allow you to adjust your communication style, if needed (Beebe, Beebe,
& Redmond, 2011).
References
Beebe,
S.A., Beebe, S.J., & Redmond, M.V. (2011). Interpersonal communication: Relating to
others (6th Ed.). Boston, MA: Allyn & Bacon.
Hi Kiara-
ReplyDeleteI like what you said about being mindful. I use self-talk all the time because I find it helps me remember things if I say it out loud. Now I know that it is also a strategy for becoming a better communicator! Thank you for sharing what you learned this week, it is always helpful to learn what others gleaned as important information.
Bri Wolfe