I would like to share my one and
only personal birthing experience. On October 12,2014, I was scheduled to be
induced with my first child due to some health complications. I was extremely
nervous about giving birth because it was my first time and because I was being
forced to go into labor. During my pregnancy, I watched tons of birthing
videos, I read tons of birthing article and I also attended a couple of
birthing class. Once my due date became closer, I became a nervous wreck. With
so many emotions flowing on the day of me being induce, both me and my spouse
forgot all the information that prepared us up until that very moment. For two days,
we played the waiting game for our little one to arrive. I was given an
epidural to cope with pain and I was given additional medicine to help me sleep
and relax. During the final hours of pushing, I started to become very
exhausted. At 7:23 am on Tuesday October 14, 2014, we give birth to
a healthy stubborn baby girl by the name of Kaissdy. All I could remember after
her birth, was the doctor placing her on my chest for the skin to skin contact,
and then taking her to be weighed and measured. This moment will always be
special to me because it was the day that my life changed forever. I am now a
Mother to a smart, sassy 2-year-old girl.
Africa
The Congolese communities in Central Africa,
religious beliefs stress that children are a gift from God. Women usually do
not give birth in a hospital; their culture rather use more natural methods.
Cesarean births, are viewed by tribe as a failure on the part of the mother
and the use of medical intervention is not allowed. Even though each country shares
different birthing practices, it does not take away from the joy that is felt
during this time.
Reference:
Birth and Childhood rituals. (2012, June 11). Retrieved
September 09, 2017, from https://africantribesuws.wordpress.com/birth-and-childhood-rituals/
I always love hearing mothers stories of their birthing experiences. As a mother myself, I have to agree that it is a day that changes your life forever. It doesn't matter what we go through to them here or the pain that we feel during childbirth, once they put that baby in our arms life is beautiful and the pain disappears. Thank you for sharing your story. I also enjoyed reading about the child birth rituals and beliefs of Africa.
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