My Mommy
My mom had been an enormous influence in my life.
Not only because she is my mother, but because she has shaped me into the women
I am today. Being the only child, my mom is like my best friend. She is always
there when I need someone to talk to, she is my motivation and she gives me the
best motherly advice. Whenever I am faced with
different challenges in life she is always in my corner cheering me on to never
give up.
My Father
On February 27, 2012, my father unexpectedly
passed away from an enlarged heart. On that day, my life changed forever. I
could count on my father to be there for anything. Before he passed away he taught me so much
about life. Especially the “how tos”, like how to change a car tire, how to check
the tire pressure, how to check the amount of oil in cars and much more. He would even come running each time he would
hear me scream, to kill a bug or insect (because I was EXTREMELY scared of
them). Even though he is no longer here physically, he will be FOREVER in my
heart. My father taught me how to stand on my own two feet and to not depend
heavily on others. I am stronger as a person because of him and for that I am
grateful. Due to his death being
unexpected, I felt for a long time the pain of not getting to say goodbye or to
give him one last big hug and kiss. But now I have come to peace with his death
because God allowed him to be on this earth just the right amount of time for
us to create everlasting memories.
My Nanny
Mrs. Peal
was her name but all her close family and friends called her “Mrs. Sister”, but
to me she was more like my 2nd mother. Earlier this year my diva
lost her battle to cancer. During my younger school days, she would care for me after school until my parents returned home from work. During my time spent
with Mrs. Sister she would 1st
make sure I completed my homework assignments and then we would have
“Girl Time”. We would have girl talks,
polish our nails, style our hair and eat Butter Pecan ice cream (it was our
favorite). She taught me how to live life and to always make the best of it.
During her last days here on earth she “lived her life”, and that was something
that she taught me all along.
My Uncle Walter
My oldest uncle has made a considerable
influence within my educational journey.
Throughout my entire years of school, he was there to support me in any
way that he could. During the summer months, he would make sure that I
completed math and reading worksheets, book reports, and history projects. My senior year of high school I received 10
scholarships to help pay for undergraduate expenses and even through my
masters’ journey he has been supportive. My Uncle Walter showed me the
importance of education. If it was not for him, I probably would not be here
today furthering my education.
My Cousin Cherae
Each summer my cousin would take a trip to my hometown to
visit me and our family. We were the only child in our families, so we looked
forward to spending time together each chance we got. My cousin and I are only
1 year apart and I believe that is why we relate in so many ways. Even to this
day we chat on the phone every day and we see each at least twice a month. We
both have children, who are also 1 year apart and we hope their bond is just as
close. Cherae is like the big sister I never had. She has taught me the true definition
of loyalty and friendship.
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ReplyDeleteHi Kiara! I enjoyed reading about the people in your family. I also loved the pictures you posted . You have such a beautiful smile and the joy you have for your life and family shows in your face. You clearly have alot of people in your family that support you. I loved the story about your father coming to rescue you from spiders. I reminded me that mine did that too. I was not an only child, but my mom and I were best friends too.
ReplyDeleteNancy Wright
I enjoyed reading your blog post about your father. It reminds me of my own father. He passed away at an early age but before he did pass away he taught me how to simple car things so I wouldn't have to ask for help. He has the type of influence that will last a life time.
ReplyDeleteHello, I liked your blog and how personable you made it for your viewers. I also lost my dad and mom both due to enlarged hearts but I was much younger. I loved reading about about the relationship between you and you mother have hopefully I'll have the same type of relationship with my son.
ReplyDeleteHi Kiara,
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed reading your post and can relate to both the relationship you had with your mother and father. My mother passed in 2007 from complications related to CHF and she was my best friend. I still miss her.